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I ruined a friendship. On the first day of summer of 2010, I met this girl named Kelley Ha. She was the first friend I made from the new school that I was going too. We didn't talk a lot until school started. A month later, homecoming started to come up, and her best friend recommended me to ask Kelley to homecoming. I accepted it and started planning ways to ask her. She said yes to me. After that, we started planning on what to do for homecoming. She said that she will go in her friend's car to go to homecoming while I go with my friends. I didn't want to be an asshole and say no to it. Now moving on to homecoming night. We did all of the things people usually do before homecoming. We had dinner and took a few photos. We only had one photo of us. Homecoming was pretty fun and all, we danced together, we ate, we sang, and other things, but during the dance, my friend asked if she wanted a picture with me. She said no and just walked away. I got mad, but I didn't really show it. The next day, I actually showed it, but not in person, I showed it on Tumblr and Facebook. Then she got mad at me and said that I could of just told her what's going on during that night. I felt really bad and apologized, but she didn't accept the apology. Few months later, I posted up on Facebook saying that I might go back to my old school. Many people liked my status, but what really threw me off was that Kelley liked my status too. I got mad again and started typing a speech on Tumblr that I really regret doing. She read it, and just pretty much told me off. Now every time I see her, I always have that guilty feeling inside me. I see her at club meetings and community service. I really want to apologize to her again about what I said. Things has been going really bad for me ever since that happened. Should I apologize to her or should I just let it go? -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Apologize to her then let it go and move on -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Apologize , if she doesn't accept it well then :
Fuck bitches , get money . -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by Cream [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Apologize , if she doesn't accept it well then :
Fuck bitches , get money . Something my neighbor would say. LOL. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. If she's really that important to you then why the fuck wouldn't you apologize? -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. She isn't going to forgive you if you just apologize. That's the type I get from your story. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by lylaznboi0 [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Something my neighbor would say. LOL. They must be black too -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. You're going to have to live with the guilt now. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Do something to make it up. She may not forgive you for a simple apology but a sincere well thought out one could help. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Make her cookies or something stupid like that when you apologize. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by Cream [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Apologize , if she doesn't accept it well then :
Fuck bitches , get money . Word. I don't really see what you did wrong though. She ones the one being a bitch about it all. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Why people choose to vent on a social networking site is beyond me...
There is no harm in apologizing so go for it. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by mero [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Why people choose to vent on a social networking site is beyond me...
There is no harm in apologizing so go for it. She told him off already, I doubt she'd want him to talk to her again, she'd make some sort of drama out of one apologie. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by KayKay [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today She told him off already, I doubt she'd want him to talk to her again, she'd make some sort of drama out of one apologie. People fight and make up all the time. She will get over it eventually. No point in giving up over mediocre reasons. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Why bitch about her not wanting to take a picture with you? -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by Expressions [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Why bitch about her not wanting to take a picture with you? I don't go on dates often and I wanted it to be a night to remember. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by lylaznboi0 [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today I don't go on dates often and I wanted it to be a night to remember. Then you should have said that when she said no to taking the picture. Apologize to her if you care about her at all. She might not accept it but at least you can say you tried. If she just turns you down when you try to apologize don't take it personally, well do but don't let it bother you. Try again in a week and make a point not to leave her alone until you get her side of the story. Don't let it be until she is able to voice how you made her feel. Now I'm not saying to be a stalker and keep bothering her ever five seconds but don't let he just simply walking away or ignoring you stop you, she might be testing to see how sorry you really are. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship. Is she hot?
Do you LOVE her like a fat kid loves cake?
If you do, apologize, do something nice, send her roses for Valentine's day, etc.
If you don't, and she's still a cunt even after you do apologize, move the fuck on.
I'm supposing she's Asian right? This my perspective, not trying to be racist because I am Asian myself, you just need to ignore them sometimes.
Sometimes when someone wants to apologize to me, I'm just like fuck you. But once they ignore me, I go back to them and be like soz for wut happened. -
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Re: I ruined a friendship.  Originally Posted by froob955 [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Then you should have said that when she said no to taking the picture. Apologize to her if you care about her at all. She might not accept it but at least you can say you tried. If she just turns you down when you try to apologize don't take it personally, well do but don't let it bother you. Try again in a week and make a point not to leave her alone until you get her side of the story. Don't let it be until she is able to voice how you made her feel. Now I'm not saying to be a stalker and keep bothering her ever five seconds but don't let he just simply walking away or ignoring you stop you, she might be testing to see how sorry you really are. I'll give it a shot. There's a speed dating social night going on for our club a few days before Valentines Day. I can do it there.  Originally Posted by Soulrez [Dear Visitor, you're restricted from viewing links until you are registered & logged on.
Click Here To Register Today Is she hot?
Do you LOVE her like a fat kid loves cake?
If you do, apologize, do something nice, send her roses for Valentine's day, etc.
If you don't, and she's still a cunt even after you do apologize, move the fuck on.
I'm supposing she's Asian right? This my perspective, not trying to be racist because I am Asian myself, you just need to ignore them sometimes.
Sometimes when someone wants to apologize to me, I'm just like fuck you. But once they ignore me, I go back to them and be like soz for wut happened. 1. I don't go for hot, I go for cute.
2. I don't really love her, I just care for her in a certain way.
3. As I said above, I'll do it on our speed dating social night.
4. Yes, she is Asian. -
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